Gay Friendly Wedding Venue in Southlands Barn, West Chiltington, West Sussex. RH20 2JU

LGBTQ+ Inclusive Wedding Venue in West Sussex

Nestled in the heart of the breathtaking South Downs National Park, Southlands Barn is a premier West Sussex wedding venue that blends 17th-century heritage with a modern, "freedom-to-create" ethos.

As a same-sex owned and operated wedding venue, we take immense pride in offering a space that is authentically and unapologetically an LGBTQ+ friendly wedding venue. We believe that every couple deserves to see their unique love story reflected in their surroundings, and at Southlands, we’ve built a home for exactly that.

Southlands Barn is a dedicated inclusive wedding venue where diversity is celebrated. Our experience as a same-sex couple in the wedding industry has shaped our commitment to total inclusivity. Whether you are searching for a same-sex wedding venue that truly "gets it" or a space that welcomes all couples with open arms, we provide a safe, celebratory, and professional environment for same-sex weddings, civil partnerships, and traditional ceremonies alike.

What truly sets Southlands Barn apart from other barn wedding venues in Sussex is our "Freedom to Create" philosophy. We believe your wedding should be as unique as your relationship, which is why we do not enforce restrictive catering packages. We are a DIY wedding venue at heart, offering you the flexibility to choose your own caterers. Whether you envision a gourmet three-course banquet, a relaxed wood-fired pizza van, or a vibrant street-food festival, the choice is entirely yours.

Our venue features two interconnected barns—the Sussex Barn and the Cattle Barn. This layout offers a seamless flow for your celebration, from a romantic ceremony under historic oak beams to a high-energy evening reception in the 17th Century Sussex Barn.

Unlike many venues that offer a rushed 12-hour window, our hire includes a dedicated set-up day. This extra time is a game-changer, allowing you to perfect your decor and DIY touches at your own pace, ensuring your wedding day is entirely stress-free.

Located near Chichester and Pulborough, our grounds offer incredible photo opportunities, from our tranquil lake, South Downs Views and with our Highland Cows!

We also provide essential amenities including a fully-licensed bar, a guest shuttle service, and on-site getting ready-rooms like our Prepping Parlour and Pool Room.

If you are looking for a West Sussex barn wedding that combines rustic charm with the modern values of a same-sex wedding destination, we would love to welcome you. At Southlands Barn, we provide the spectacular backdrop, but you hold the keys to a celebration that is authentically, beautifully yours.